learning about me

here's some stuff i'm learning about myself...
1. I naturally take charge of most situations
2. I often wonder if the grass may just be greener someplace else
3. I find it very difficult to grow and change
4. I tend to be controlling of others
5. I can be naive and too trusting of others
6. I can be judgmental and intolerant of others
7. Sometimes I am depressed and pessimistic
8. I am intense about achieving goals
9. I am ambitious and a good worker
10. I think I am sometimes unrealistic about my expectations of people and situations
11. I need reassurance and security
12. I enjoy nurturing my family and friends